Today's Devotional For Singles & Couples

When Marriage Becomes a Safe Place for Sin

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | February 10, 2026 | Singles and Married | 0 Comments

1. Covenant can be misused as cover. Marriage establishes access and proximity. When repentance is absent, proximity becomes concealment. Sin does not disappear inside covenant. It gains shelter. 2. Privacy without accountability breeds corruption. Covenant creates...

How Childhood Survival Patterns Choose Adult Partners

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | February 9, 2026 | Singles and Married | 0 Comments

1. Survival patterns are learned governance, not personality. What kept the child safe becomes the adult's operating system. Hyper-vigilance, people-pleasing, withdrawal, control, or self-erasure are not traits; they are strategies. They persist because they once...

The Theology That Keeps People in Abuse

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | February 8, 2026 | Singles and Married | 0 Comments

1. False theology spiritualizes suffering instead of confronting sin. Abuse persists where harm is reframed as holiness. Scripture never sanctifies violence, coercion, or domination. Theology that excuses harm by calling it endurance corrupts God's justice. "Learn to...

Marriage Can Hide Untreated Trauma

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | February 7, 2026 | Singles and Married | 0 Comments

1. Marriage provides cover; it does not provide cure. Marriage creates structure that can conceal dysfunction. Routine replaces reflection. Responsibility replaces introspection. Trauma untreated does not disappear in covenant. It relocates behind roles. 2....

When Submission Is Weaponized

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | February 6, 2026 | Singles and Married | 0 Comments

1. Submission is alignment to God, not leverage over people. Biblical submission is ordered obedience to divine authority. It is never granted to control another human. When submission is used as leverage, authority has been hijacked. "Submit to one another out of...

When Silence Becomes the Marriage Contract

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | February 5, 2026 | Singles and Married | 0 Comments

1. Silence is not peace; it is unaddressed disorder. Peace governs through clarity. Silence governs through avoidance. Where issues remain unspoken, disorder is not removed; it is institutionalized. A marriage held together by silence is not stable. It is suspended....

Marriage Does Not Create Purpose

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | February 4, 2026 | Singles and Married | 0 Comments

1. Purpose is assigned by God, not generated by relationship. Purpose originates in divine calling, not marital status. Function precedes union. Marriage does not invent direction; it joins what already has direction. "God blessed them and said to them, 'Be fruitful...

Desire That Demands Urgency Is Deception

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | February 3, 2026 | Singles and Married | 0 Comments

1. Urgency is not divine confirmation. God does not rush alignment. Scripture establishes that God leads through order, not pressure. Desire that insists on immediacy bypasses discernment. Anything that cannot withstand time is not authorized by truth. 2. Urgency...

Romance That Weakens Discipline Is Corruption

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | February 2, 2026 | Singles and Married | 0 Comments

1. Discipline is the evidence of inner government. Discipline is self-rule under God. Where discipline erodes, governance has already collapsed. Romance that weakens discipline does not enhance life; it destabilizes it. "Like a city whose walls are broken through is a...

Intimacy Without Covenant Is Theft

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | February 1, 2026 | Singles and Married | 0 Comments

1. Intimacy is governed property, not public access. Scripture treats intimacy as covenant-bound stewardship. Access without covenant violates order. Taking what is reserved is theft by definition. "Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall...

Marriage Is a Responsibility, Not a Reward

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | January 31, 2026 | Singles and Married | 0 Comments

1. Marriage is an assignment, not a prize. Marriage is not bestowed as compensation for endurance or loneliness. It is entrusted as stewardship. Responsibility precedes companionship. Covenant is given to those capable of governance, not those seeking relief. "The...

Love Without Submission to God Is Rebellion

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | January 30, 2026 | Singles and Married | 0 Comments

1. Love is governed, not autonomous. Love does not define itself. God defines love. Any expression of love that operates outside divine authority is self-ruled. Self-rule is rebellion. Scripture establishes order before affection. Where God does not govern, the self...

Marriage Multiplies What You Already Are

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | January 29, 2026 | Singles and Married | 0 Comments

1. Marriage is amplification, not transformation. Marriage does not change internal structure. It increases its volume. What exists in the soul before covenant becomes more visible after covenant. Order becomes strength. Disorder becomes pressure. Marriage follows the...

Marriage Is Not a Cure for Emptiness

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | January 28, 2026 | Singles and Married | 0 Comments

1. Emptiness is a spiritual disorder, not a relational gap. Emptiness is the absence of internal order, not the absence of a partner. A soul without structure cannot be stabilized by companionship. Relationship cannot supply what alignment with God has not produced....

Peace Is the Final Judge of Relationship Direction

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | January 27, 2026 | Singles and Married | 0 Comments

Peace is not emotional calm. Peace is divine alignment. It is the governing signal of God's approval. Rule means govern, decide, command. Peace is not a feeling to be managed. It is a verdict to be obeyed. "Let the peace of God rule in your hearts."— Colossians 3:15...

God Does Not Heal Through Emotional Escape

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | January 26, 2026 | Singles and Married | 0 Comments

God does not heal through avoidance. He heals through confrontation. Emotional escape is not rest. It is rebellion disguised as relief. It is the refusal to face what truth demands. "Come now, and let us reason together, saith the Lord."— Isaiah 1:18 God does not...

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Rev Dunamis Okunowo
Facilitator at Kisses and Huggs Club. Pastor at Shouts of Grace Center, Ibadan. Pastor, Father, Mentor, Writer, Husband.
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