How Reading My Bible Transformed My Love Life

How Reading My Bible Transformed My Love Life

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How Reading My Bible Transformed My Love Life (And How It Can Transform Yours Too)

Whether you’re single, dating, or married, love can sometimes feel like a puzzle—exciting, complicated, and even confusing. But what if the missing piece isn’t another date, a new strategy, or even relationship advice from a podcast? What if the real game-changer is already on your shelf… your Bible?

Here’s how reading the Bible can truly transform your love life—no matter where you are on your relationship journey.

1. It Teaches You What Real Love Looks Like

We often confuse love with feelings, chemistry, or even compatibility. But the Bible shows us that love is a choice—patient, kind, forgiving, and selfless (1 Corinthians 13:4–7). That kind of love doesn’t just “happen”—it’s built. And the more we read Scripture, the more we understand how to love God’s way, not just the world’s way.

Single? You’ll learn to stop settling for anything less than God’s kind of love.

Married? You’ll be reminded that love isn’t just about sparks—it’s about sacrifice.

2. It Helps You Heal from Past Hurt

Love has a way of leaving scars. Maybe you’ve been betrayed, rejected, or disappointed. But God’s Word is full of healing. Through the stories of people like Ruth, Hosea, or even the woman at the well, we see that God redeems broken hearts and writes beautiful new stories.

Reading the Bible helps shift your focus from what hurt you to the One who heals you.

3. It Builds Your Confidence and Identity

Before you can love someone else well, you need to know who you are. The Bible constantly reminds you that you are chosen, loved, and valuable. When you’re rooted in that truth, you stop looking for someone else to complete you—you walk into relationships whole.

4. It Guides You with Wisdom

Relationships come with choices—who to date, how to handle conflict, when to speak, and when to stay silent. The Bible is full of wisdom for every stage of love life. Proverbs, Ephesians, Song of Songs—they’re not just ancient words; they’re everyday tools.

5. It Keeps God at the Center

A love life that thrives is one that’s centered around God. When both people (or just you, if you’re still waiting) are guided by Scripture, you build something that lasts. Not just based on attraction, but on shared values and spiritual growth.

Reading your Bible isn’t about becoming “ultra-spiritual”—it’s about becoming healthier, wiser, and more loving in your relationships. God cares about your love life, and His Word is the ultimate relationship manual.

So, whether you’re praying for “the one” or working on the love you already have, start with your Bible. It’s not just about finding love—it’s about becoming love.

The Believer’s Authority

The Believer’s Authority

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The Believer’s Authority

One of the tools the devil uses against the body of Christ is to capitalize on the believer’s ignorance but the question is; Are believers truly ignorant?

The word of God says in Hosea 4:6 “My people are destroyed from lack of knowledge…” Why should we be destroyed, because we lack knowledge when it can be sought for?

In every season of the believer’s life, the right knowledge is needed. It’s about time we understand the authority we have and use it to our advantage.

Jesus Christ said, “Behold, I give unto you power” That power given is meant for use and not to be kept.

Why should you wake up from a dream frightened, when there’s an authority you have in Christ as a believer?

Why is our attitude to positive dreams so calm, but when it’s a negative dream, you can wake up suddenly and pray for hours, just to terminate it, why can’t we pray those positive ones into reality also?

The first authority we have is our identity in Christ. The life of Christ has been given to us to become the sons of God, who have been transformed into the kingdom of His marvelous life. Jesus Christ said on the cross, “It is finished.”

The word of the enemy over our life is finished, the grip of sin over our life is finished, the power of sickness over our life has come to an end, whatsoever that is not of God in our life came to an end when He said, it is finished.

These are the things the devil doesn’t want you to know. The day you know the truth, there’s a freedom that comes with it, and then the application of this truth is peace, dominion, and breakthrough.

Another authority we have is in His word. Hebrews  4:12 says: “The word of God is quick and powerful, and sharper than any two-edged sword…” It’s deeper than we can ever imagine, the Bible says, the words I speak, are Spirit and Life. This word will only be life for us when we know the life-giver Himself.

The efficacy of the word is activated by God. The word is beyond mere words, you must read it till it becomes the life that awakens your spirit man.

These words established the world, and that’s the authority we are talking about, even the dry bones in the valley received life by the word.

Irrespective of the bad reports that look like the end, the word of God can give life back to it.

Believers, it’s time for us to arise and take our stand. Enough of giving the devil an upper hand over our lives, it’s time to take charge and authority.

Begin to speak those same words into your life now believing it’s done.

Shalom.

Abigail – A Woman of Good Understanding

Abigail – A Woman of Good Understanding

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Abigail – A Woman of Good Understanding

Abigail is one of the women in the Bible, with rich lessons to teach and wisdom to glean from.

Her story is in 1 Samuel 25: 1 – end.

Her story teaches us how to handle any difficult relationship. Whether it is a relationship with an employer, an associate, a colleague, a child, a mentor, a mentee, a spouse, or a family member, it’s the same principle and it can be applied for success.

1 Samuel 25:3 [KJV] Now the name of the man was Nabal; and the name of his wife Abigail: and she was a woman of good understanding, and of a beautiful countenance: but the man was churlish and evil in his doings; and he was of the house of Caleb.  

Emotional intelligence, people management, and good understanding were virtues that Abigail possessed. Abigail had a good understanding of herself, her husband, her situation, and her household.

Our focus is not on Nabal’s behavior but on her ability to beautifully manage and navigate the situation.

It is our year of supernatural growth and our emphasis should be growing in the fruit of the Spirit.

Galatians 5:22-23 [KJV] But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance: against such there is no law.  

The more we learn to develop the fruits of the Spirit, the better our relationships will be even if the persons are “churlish and evil in their doings” like Nabal

We can see her good understanding being displayed in her attitudes, speech, actions, and the quality of her inner life.

Her good understanding helped her to know the times and seasons and how to salvage a situation that would have led to the murder of every life associated with Nabal, both young and old.

The story of Abigail is not just for wives but also for men, who want to know how to manage people.  People are ladders, especially those relationships God brought into your life.

Don’t discard people because of offenses and unforgiveness.  You need to understand that not every man has developed fully in the fruit of the Spirit. They might just be the help you need at certain junctions in your life.

There are some things we have control over and some we don’t have control over. You don’t have control over other people’s behavior but you have control over your attitudes.

It’s all about how you react when others treat you badly.

Being married to Nabal was a lot, but Abigail was a woman who had a good understanding.

Isaiah 11:2 tells us that the Holy Spirit is the spirit of wisdom and understanding.

I pray the Holy Spirit will impact our lives with Good understanding in Jesus’ mighty name amen

God bless you.

Have a fantastic week ahead of you.

The Snare Is Broken

The Snare Is Broken

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What is a snare?

A snare is a device or trap employed to capture or confine an animal against its will. Historically, fowlers (bird hunters) utilized snares to capture birds.

In Psalm 124:7-8, the term “snare” is employed metaphorically to convey a situation characterized by peril, oppression, or confinement.

Psa 124:7-8 (AMPC) We are like a bird escaped from the snare of the fowlers; the snare is broken, and we have escaped! [8] Our help is in the name of the Lord, Who made heaven and earth.

The psalmist is comparing God’s rescue to a bird escaping from a hunter’s snare.

In a broader sense, the snare can represent any kind of trap, temptation, or bondage. The passage expresses gratitude for God’s deliverance and protection.

Guess what? This is exactly your story!

You’ve escaped!

Not only did you escape, but the trap was invalidated, rendered useless, null, and void!

You’re free!

Jesus has done something incredible for you and me. We’ve been freed from all sorts of traps, temptations, and bondages! Praise be to God!

You’re meant to live a triumphant life, not a defeated one like you’re still trapped!

And guess what? The next verse says your help comes from the Lord!

Live in the reality of the help that God has given you.

In your relationship and marriage, celebrate what God has done for you!

Soar like an eagle and don’t get caught up in the messes of this world.

We have a similar promise in Psalm 91, which says the same thing we have in God!

Psa 91:3 (KJV) Surely he shall deliver thee from the snare of the fowler, and from the noisome pestilence.

Effective immediately, embrace the reality of that freedom and accept all the divine assistance that God bestows upon you in the name of Jesus.

Good morning!

You Can’t Do It Alone

You Can’t Do It Alone

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It is good to get people in your life. This is because no one is an island. In this life, you can’t do it alone, so learn how to have good associations.

What areas can you involve people?

We will look at goal-setting this morning.

You can tell others about your goals. Doing so is not to make you look holy or think less of those who don’t have goals like you. 

When people know your goals, they could offer encouragement and support.

You want to start studying the bible and you tell your parents, they could offer to remind you daily to study, as well as ask you questions about what you have read – start up a discussion where you will learn more from them or offer you materials that could help you study well. 

Goal setting is best achieved when you have the help, support, and encouragement of others. Why? When your goals seem unachievable, you aren’t too sure about them anymore and feel like giving up totally on them, you will need people to help you. 

The Ethiopian eunuch was reading from the book of Isaiah and didn’t understand what it was about. It took the Holy Spirit sending Phillip to him before he could understand, after which he gave his life to Christ.

What do you think the eunuch would have done if Phillip hadn’t come? He probably would have just given up.

Phillip asked, “Do you understand what you are reading?’ He answered, “How can I understand? I need someone to explain it to me!” Then he invited Phillip to climb in and sit with him (Acts 30-31).

Do not go on a solo ride in goal setting. Involve God and others.

God bless you.

Prayer:
Lord, help me to understand that I don’t have to do this alone. Help me involve others. Lead me to the right people and help me accept their advice and support. Amen

Action point:
Are there people who can support, encourage, and help you with your goals? If not, prayerfully ask God to show them to you.

Declaration:

I am surrounded by the right set of people. God helps me to set and achieve my goals.

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